On My Birthday, I Interviewed My Parents: What Was It Like To Raise Me?
When I was growing up, I didn't realize that I was also watching my mom and dad grow up. I spent most of my life focusing on their imperfections instead of seeing that they were just two imperfect humans doing their best at being parents.
30 Reflections From Healing a Broken Relationship With My Parents
For the last few years, the most important priority in my life has been healing the broken relationship I had with my parents for more than a decade. Here is my raw and real journey—what I did, and what I learned. I hope these reflections will help you feel a little less lonely on your journey.
On AAPI Violence
I was physically assaulted while riding the Caltrain in June 2016. I’ve only told a few people about this incident. In light of recent events, I wanted to share my story publicly. We need more awareness. We need to spread more love.
#30 - Building a Future Where My Family and Friends Live in an Intergenerational Village
For my last essay, I wanted to write about my dream of living next to my family, friends, & their families. There are many things I want to create. This is one I will never regret building.
#29 - It Took Me Two Years of Inner Work to Let Go of My Shame and Forgive Myself
Shame is a poisoned arrow I kept buried in my heart. It took me a long time to forgive myself for how I mistreated my parents. It was the gift that I needed to give myself to live my best life.