My father didn’t tell me how to live. He lived, and let me watch him do it. - Clarence Kelland There are endless examples of my father's selfless love. This is one that is dear to my heart.

When you look into your mother’s eyes, you know that is the purest love you can find on this earth. - Mitch Albom There are endless examples of my mom's radical love. This is one that I'll never forget.

I asked my mom, "What kind of advice would you give to all parents?". I think we could all benefit from her wisdom for any relationship. Listen to her answer in Chinese here: https://go.parentsarehuman.com/momsadvice

Warning: This is hard and not for the faint of heart. My parents used to say a lot of things that triggered me. This remarkable exercise helped me see the love behind their words.

I had it all backwards. I wanted my mom and dad to listen to me first before I heard them out. I was so busy trying to change my parents that I forgot to change myself. I am the only person I can change.